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Hi Mort, I have a confession to make. I signed up to your site not because I was having problems in marriage but because I wanted to learn more. I serve in the marriage preparation dept in our church and your posts have really enlightened me. Although my wife and I have authored a book on marriage, we are always seeking to improve and learn more and your posts have enriched us lots. Keep up the great work!

Hi Mort, I'm a South African who had a very bad first time experience of a cheating partner and in this case it was my wife. The whole experience almost destroyed me but I came across your website via Google and since I've subscribed to the emails a lot has changed. I still struggle with trust but it's a work in progress. You have helped me a lot and at times the series I got were so spot on that I couldn't even send an email to say thank you. Thank you for the good work you do, one marriage saved is a world of possibilities for the future. Thank you and may you continue supporting us and doing your bit to save marriages.

While I definitely should be using the Lone Ranger Boot Camp program, there is no way I can afford it. And so I cling to Mort's emails and books. My husband has been medically depressed for over 18 months now, during which he decided to move out. He is slowly been coming out of it, problem being like a different man. He is obstinate, self centered, and only concerned about himself. Because of my hurt and anger using Mort's advice I am able to change my perspective and have hope for the man I married. This all has made me realize my reactions to situations contributed to this mess. His rages (part of the depression) I would run from not wanting to hear anymore evil, vile words from him. I have learned if I had responded in a kind loving way maybe this situation with us wouldn't be where it is today. There have been small changes so far. We can have really good times between us, talk about good times we used to have. But then he pulls away. So I just keep following Mort's advice. Hopefully this will make the difference. A really important part of this is that I feel better about myself. The positive advice makes such a difference at the end of the day when I can say I did good today! I handled things in a good way not bitter or mean. I can look at myself see things I need improvement on and feel good that I can make those changes and that they make me a better person. Now if I could only get him on board!!! Like I said this is from emails and his books only and the difference in my attitude is unbelievable! Not that I don't get down and frustrated I do. I just go back to the books and emails, read what I have highlighted, take a deep breath and dig in again! Best of luck to all of you using this program. I hope it turns out well for you. Although honestly I can't see how it wouldn't. It's amazing to me how a shift in attitude and perspective can make such a difference! Can't say what it is like to work the program with my spouse. Just saying even on this limited basis and doing it alone I can see what the potential is.

No comment at all. May God bless you with all your need. The way you look things is different than ordinary one. I believe that all peoples who are viewing your page would be interested in your point. Thank you again.

I really appreciated receiving the emails from Mort. They were filled with many insightful suggestions on how to handle the negativity that can often come up when there are issues of conflict in a marriage. It has helped me to see some hope and to not give up too easily.