Improving myself first
I have not entered a program yet my wife is not willing to try it, she says we don't need help from anyone else, but I have been receiving emails and reading other peoples stories and it has really encouraged me. So, I have been working on myself to improve our marriage. I know both of us have faults and I have implemented several things that Mort has suggested in regards to doing what I need to do to strengthen our marriage. Things have gotten better and I am not taking the little things for granted. I have started doing things that I did when we first met and this has made a lot of difference. My wife has noticed a change in my attitude towards repairing our marriage, and she has made changes to. Tomorrow is our 25th anniversary, 6 months ago I didn't know if we would make it to this day. We have both made mistakes in taking each other for granted, but I feel we are on the right path to being in love like we were 25 years ago. We are still a long ways away, but I have faith in what Mort has to say. I want to get the video program to start and hope that my wife will see me watching them and join in, even if she is in the other room catching part of it, I believe that will help.
Thank you Mort, I think you do a great job.