Your ideas seem to be relieving some of the pressure-
I appreciate your emails. Previous counseling has not been beneficial to us; but I've been able to implement and bring-up some of the ideas you've presented and they've been well received. The thought of "putting a couple of the wheels back on the wagon" - before we have to "peel the onion" on our problems, seems to be taking a lot of pressure off of our situation.
Until he's onboard I'm not in a position to afford the boot-camp; so I got 2 copies of your book. One I'm using and the other is there for him -if/when he feels like picking it up. When he saw it I reminded him that you are the author of "those emails" that he likes. He seemed to appreciate the gesture, we'll see-
As for me, your encouragement is huge!
Thank you.
PS, I've also shared your ideas with our kids as they contemplate marriages of their own.