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Mort, Thank you for all the emails! I am so glad I found your site and signed up. I was one of those people that thought it was all my husband and your emails really helped me realize the damage I was doing to our marriage by denying my husband any positive actions. What I was also doing was punishing myself to the point of terrible depression and anxiety attacks. Your emails helped me to realize what I was doing and what I should be doing. It was a great start to turn our marriage around. But we still need help to guide both of us to the best marriage and total connection. That will require the boot camp. Money is tight so I am waiting for my schedule to lighten up so I can devote my full attention and hope my husband will join me as well. I know he will not read or listen to CDs but may interact with another person on the phone so he can retain an anonymous feeling. He was brought up in a "no affection" dysfunctional family and I believe your boot camp will help him learn how to show affection and make that connection beyond what I am showing him. I was brought up in a very affectionate environment but after being hurt both physically and emotionally by others I began building "walls" to, what I thought, protect my hurt feelings. You opened my eyes to what those walls were actually doing to me and it wasn't good. We have been married for 34 years now and it is our first (and only) marriage for both of us. It is definitely worth saving. Thank you again for getting me started on changing myself and my marriage. I look forward to signing up for the boot camp in the next few months!

I got my wife back and with this and thank you

For anyone wanting to work on their marriage, whether it is completely falling apart or just limping along, Mort's daily emails are most helpful. There is much food for thought, things to contemplate, action points to put into practice, and tips that perhaps we know innately but fail to remember in the times of a crisis. I recommend Mort's approach to marriage repair to anyone - even if you are just wanting to make your relationship stronger. I would suggest you don't wait until its falling apart to tune in!

I'm still working through the book, but so far so good. The knowledge is delivered practically in a today's voice. It's easy to understand the concepts and even easier to practice as long as you are committed to improve your situation.

Dear Mort, Thank you for your advise. I find them sound and practical. I subscribe now to the idea of not talking about the problem and just go beyond that to being the best version of myself that I can be and the effect of that will be a favorable response from my spouse. I always thought we should talk about the problem so we can address it but that is not true. The more I wanna talk things through the bigger the chasm that kept us apart. Followingvyour advise, I have learned to look beyond the issue and let it go and the chasm is slowly closing though he is still living apart from me and my kids. After all the emotional turmoil I went through, there's now peace within me not because he has changed but because I have and also because of my faith in a God who restores all things including my marriage. Thank you Mort and God bless you, your wife and kids richly! Ratna